My First Adult Toy Party

21 06 2008

Ok, the run up!

What fun that was. First I had to find a friend who was willing to host a party, then get her to invite a load of our friends (people I knew and others I didn’t). I didn’t want too many people so we settled on inviting 12, and hoping for a show of about 10.

Then we sat down to decide on what stock to take to the party. I decided to take quite a few of the vibrators, some sexy underwear (corsets, babydolls, etc), some fun accessories, novelty items, vibrators of course and some aphrodisiacs.

Next on the list was to brief my host and confirm how many guest we were expecting, then to go out and make sure we had enough wine to get people relaxed and in the mood for some fun.

Noon the afternoon of the party found me frantically trying to get all my ’stuff’ together and then quickly think about what I was planning to say about each product – just so we wouldn’t have any awkward silences – you know what I mean?

Well we got our 10 guest and after greeting everyone, making sure they all had a large glass of wine I started pulling all my ‘bits’ out of the bag. I quickly ran through the features of each item, showed everyone what it did, how it worked, and then passed it around the group so that they could test it out for themselves – well not really – lol.

I started off with the edible undies. I opened the packet and passed them to everyone so they could check them out – texture, taste, etc Oh my! The comments … can you just imagine? I won’t go into details here, but let your imagination wander. The one of the young ladies got the undies and next minute she was wearing it on her head and doing an impromptu dance in the middle of the floor – maybe she isn’t used to drinking? lol

Ok, on to the vibrators. I had brought a few different ones for the ladies to ‘play’ with.

Boy did we have fun with these, all the different speeds and gyrations going on. The girls went to town on these babies. Of course it was very hard for me to decide which ones to bring with me – there are just SO many.

Now, on to the Dildo’s. Again, so many to choose from so I decided on 1 glass one with pretty designs and a fleshy one. I’m sure you can imagine the comments this one inspired. Let your imagination go wild and I’ll lay odds you aren’t even close! This Big Bad Boy is 7″ around at the head and 7 1/2″ at the base — hmmm, what I could get up to with that!

Kris Lord Dong

Ok, time to calm everyone down with a few games. I have a selection, but only brought a few with me. My favorites are the ‘Beginners Strip Tease Kit’ and ‘Dirty Minds‘. I don’t want to go on forever here, so suffice to say we had an awesome and very funny time leaving through the questions from the Dirty Minds game. It certainly did set out the saintly from the lecherous amongst us.

Next came a couple of Penis Ring Vibrators, 1 or 2 bondage items – Nipple clamps and some examples of Restraints. The some lingerie just to round the evening off – a few corsets, couple of sexy babydoll items and some thongs – male and female!

Mens Tiger PouchLadies Tiger Pants

What a fun evening. I handed the order forms around after the lingerie had done the rounds, had a few more glasses of wine and then collected the forms.

Hmmm, I didn’t want to get too involved in doing parties – it is far too time consuming … this this was really a lot of fun. Maybe I could be persuaded to do another one.

Have fun.





The Purpose of Adult Toys …

1 06 2008

Just a short quick post this time.  I was thinking … (strange I know), but what exactly is the purpose of Adult Toys aka Sex Toys?

Adult Toys are meant to be just that – Toys.  They are primarily meant for couples to enhance their sexual relationship.

I guess it is true that some single adults will and do use them for other recreational purposes, they weren’t originally designed to take the place of a partner.  Rather, they were meant to complement that partner and to enhance your sexual experience together.

I find that keeping this in mind when purchasing my sex toys (and reviewing them) helps me to remain centered on our relationship, rather than letting it become all about ME.

Many of the sex toys around today are centered on female pleasure, e.g. vibrators and there are many people who, when asked about sex toys, will immediately think of vibrators and will go no further.  In fact, there are many many different types of Sex Toys available – more and more with each passing day.

Watch this blog and I will be telling you about some of them… or go to my website to view a wide variety. 

Till next time…