The Tenga products have been developed with sexual satisfaction for men in mind.

The Tenga products have special valves which create a virtual vacuum inside the cup, delivering an amazing sucking sensation. And, the unique pinched-in shape helps to achieve an unparalleled tightness. These advanced features combine with an arousing “slurping” sound and vibration to give you the feeling that you’re enjoying a real deep throat experience.

The Tenga cups are soft centered and contain lubricant. They are designed for one use (more if you use a condom) and it’s the most intense orgasm you’ll ever have!

Don’t forget – all these products should be used with a lubricant, and while these items come with their own lubricant – you can never have enough – see below for a few great choices.

The Tenga Soft Tube Cup is 7” long with a 9.5” circumference and the lubricant it contains is water based.  You will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

2.  Tenga Deep Throat Cup

The Tenga Deep Throat Cup is 6” long with a 8” circumference and the lubricant it contains is water based.  You will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

3.  Tenga Soft Tube Cup

The Tenga Deep Throat Cup is 7” long with a 9.5” circumference and the lubricant it contains is water based.  You will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

4.  Tenga (Ultra Size) Deep Throat Cup

The Tenga Deep Throat Cup is 7” long with a 9.5” circumference and the lubricant it contains is water based.  You will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

5.  Tenga Double Hole Cup

A cup with two holes that allows you to enjoy different types of sensual sensations – the “Bitter Side” and the “Sweet Side”. 

The Tenga Double Hole Cup is 6” long with a 8” circumference and the lubricant it contains is water based.  Once again, you will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

6.  Tenga Air Cushion Cup

World’s first organism cup to adopt an air-cushion mechanism without relying on the elasticity of sponge or urethane materials. The ultimate, never before experienced clinging sensation has been achieved by allowing free changing of the air pressure in the 24 air-cushion chambers.

The Tenga Deep Throat Cup is 6” long with a 8” circumference and 2.5” diameter with a water based lubricant.  You will also find that it is flexible with a ‘real feel’ to it that is unbeatable.

Don’t forget your lubricant!

What is masturbation?  Well, the official definition is :

Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use “sex toys,” such as a vibrator.

What do men use?  Well, there are many things available these days but an all time favorite of many men is one of the Tenga products which enclose the penis like a sleeve and give incredible sensations to help you achieve climax.

OK, so who masturbates and how often?

Well, just about everybody masturbates at some time, either often, or seldom – but everybody does it!

Masturbation is extremely common behavior and it makes not difference whether you are in a settled relationship or one your own. In one national study, 95% of males and 89% of females have reported that they have masturbated. Masturbation is the first sexual act experienced by most males and females and in young children, masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body. Most people continue to masturbate in adulthood, and many do so throughout their lives – no matter of their age or experiences.

Why do you masturbate?

Everyone likes to feel good so in addition to the feeling of well being, masturbation is a good way of relieving the sexual tension that builds up over time.  This applies especially to people who don’t have partners or if their partners are not able to satisfy their needs.  In these days of AIDS and other SID’s, masturbation also is a safe alternative for people who do not want to find themselves pregnant and/or infected with a SID.  Of course there are also times when a man will need to give a semen sample for infertility testing or sperm donation and when sexual dysfunction is a problem for a person, masturbation of often suggested by a sex therapist to allow a person to experience an orgasm (women) or to delay its arrival (men).

Is it Normal to Masturbate?

Many years ago it was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem to masturbate but these days masturbation is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a great way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout your life.

Masturbation does become a problem when it causes issues with your sexual activity with your partner, is practised in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and interferes with your daily life and activities.

Is Masturbation Harmful?

It has been suggested that masturbation improves your sexual health and sexual relationships.  Masturbation allows you to work out what is erotically pleasing to you and then you can share this information with your partner.  Mutual masturbation between partners can also help you to discover more satisfying techniques and add to your intimacy.

Information drawn from a study by the doctors at The Cleveland Clinic Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology.

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Do you just close your eyes and wait for 15 Feb before you venture out?

 Either way, I can offer you a solution.

If you are a ‘Romantic’ or someone (male or female) who tries to avoid the whole subject, please read on and see what I have for you. 

Make Valentines this year something SPECIAL!

• A warming massage oil
• Chocolate body paint (for the creative amongst us)
• Glass champagne flutes
• Silk rose petals
• Tealights
• A printed Romance Guide (just in case you need a bit of help). 

Enchanted Evening

All this for one low price of only £29.95 – definitely cheaper than a romantic meal out for 2 on Valentines Day!  

For anyone who is feeling a bit flush and if you really want to make your loved one feel extra special – what about this Enchanted Suite Gift Set,  at £119.95, and turn your Valentines evening into an extra special romantic occasion sure to beat any that’s gone before.Fantasy Suite Gift Set

• Warming massage oil
• Chocolate body paint with a brush
• Champagne flutes
• A champagne bucket
• Two satin robes
• One thousand scented silk rose petals
• Three pillar candles
• Fifty tea lights
• The Amazing Hot Heart massager
• Romantic Music CD
• A full colour Romance Guide

Fantasy Suite Gift Set

In this Gift Set you will find everything you need to create the perfect romantic experience that only dreams and fantasies are made of.

Find these items, and more, at www.violetpleasure.co.uk – use discount code – Playtime – for a 10% discount in honour of Valentines Day.

Last night I had a party at a friends house and boy was it a fun evening!  Four or five of the ladies there were friends of mine, but there was also 4 or 5 ladies who I hadn’t met before.  Anyway, the party got off to a raging start with everybody introducing themselves so we would all know names, then we got down to business.

I went through my rack of lingerie items and the ladies all had a good look.  Boy you should have heard the comments when we got to the mens lingerie.  We had great comments like :

‘Hmmm, I don’t think that would fit him!’, ’Oooh, that’ll do it for me!’ and, ‘Gotta have one of those for Christmas!’.  Have a look through our range and see what you think – let me know your comments!  We have a selection covering items in leather and latex through to novelty items specially for Christmas, and even something for the animal lovers out there.

Ladies lingerie – I had a great selection of ladies lingerie too.  The favourite seemed to be the babydoll sets of which I have a great selection to choose from – even some Plus Sizes which are very sexy too.

Once we finished with the selection of lingerie we played a great game … Sexy Bingo.  It was great fun.  Each lady had a piece of paper and a pen, she then had to write a list of 20 numbers between 1 and 79.  Once that was done she had to add a sexy and rude phrase – we had some great ones… ‘Cuddle me tight’, ‘Take me rough hon’, etc…  Anyway, what we did after that was too anonomously exchange pieces of paper and then I started calling out random numbers.  As each person crossed off the number on their list they had to shout out the phrase written with their numbers, one at a time so we had ladies shouting out things like ‘cuddle me tight’ – ‘stick me in the night’, etc… I’m sure your imagination can fill in the blanks…

After that we moved onto the ‘Adult’ part of the party and I brought out all the vibrators and novelty gifts.  Definitely one of the most popular items I had with me was the ‘Waver Bunny’ - I had all the ladies trying out the vibration on their noses (the only way to get the true sensation!).  Next up was the ‘Dinky Rabbit Finger Vibe’ with a very strong vibration!  Next stop was something for the men, a ‘Rabbit Vibrating Cockring’, a great choice for the man in your life, but something that will also give you some pleasure too.

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Lets’s see – what about this?

Sophisticated, sexy, cool, hot and wonderfully sparkly.  Glass Dildo’s look like a work of art while still being able to satisfy your anal and viginal needs.

Glass Dildos have been around for a long time, but because of misconceptions many have ignored them.  People seem to have thought that they may break into tiny pieces during a hectic session or strong orgasm.  This is just NOT true.

Lets get it right now because it is time that you put your worries aside and gave a Glass Dildo a chance.  If you look after your work of art properly, it should last just as long as any of the other alternatives available.

Smooth, Smooth, Smooth = A Wonderful Time

For some reason those of us who are in the know keep it a deep, dark secret … but I thought I’d let the cat out of the bag … the smooth glass gives a smooth penetration and a gloriously strong orgasm.  Even the curved and twisted glass dildos with ridges will give a smoother feel than most of the silicone/plastic dildos out there.  Add to the natural smooth texture your bodies natural secretions and you are sure to have a smooth, slippery ride.

Most of the glass dildos you will come across are made from very high grade Pyrex, which as most women will know, is a safe, strong and durable material which can be heated or cooled with no problem.  Any additional colours used to enhance the look of the dildo will have been created by using non-toxic materials and I am sure, will be FDA approved to ensure your safety.

Danger Level?

A well cared for glass dildo will last you a very long time.  Unless they are accidentally chipped, the surface of your glass dildo is unlikely to give you any problems when used for vaginal or anal (if it has a flared base) sex.

Your glass dildo will NOT shatter inside you if shafted too hard or clenched too tightly by your pelvic muscles.  You would have to be pretty amazing to achieve this – in fact, you would probably be in the record books, and of course, unnecessary force should not be used during sex in any case.

You should get into the habit of checking your glass dildo for cracks, chips or nicks each time you clean your toy.  This will prevent any tiny cuts to youself or your partners skin.  When using a glass dildo for anal sex be sure to use one with a flared base to ensure you are able to retrieve it easily.

Glass Dildos – A Thing of Beauty

Many women leave their glass dildos on display on their bedside tables because they class them as a thing of beauty as well as being a fantastic sex toy.

The Glass Dichroic Spiral Curved Shaft, for example, is a titillating twister that has a wonderful ribbed contour and a curved shaft - perfect for stimulating your vaginal walls.

If you feel as though external stimulation would be a good way to kick-off your glass dildo play, grab hold of the Glass Indigo Intruder. This Intruder is great to gently run over your body or your partner’s clit or penis to get things moving, but if it’s a spiral effect you’re looking for, then something like our Glass Navy Blue Spiral Wrapping should work for you.

Hot, Hot, Hot

Glass dildos can be heated or cooled to your individual preferences and the variations of temperature on your clitoris during penetration will intensify your orgasm beyond your wildest dreams.

To heat or cool your glass dildo safely you should leave it out at room temperature for a few minutes to begin with.  Then, fill a large pan with hot tap water, cover your glass dildo with the water for 5 minutes.  Pour out most of the water until the dildo is ½ covered and then fill the pan with boiling water.  Remove your dildo and set it aside for about 25 minutes so that you won’t burn yourself.  Always remember to test the temperature of the dildo on your arm before using it.

Should I Use a Lubricant?  Which One?

You will find that the smooth sensations of the glass dildo will make your natural secretions flow a lot faster then usual, we still recommend that you use a lubricant.  Use a lubricant which has been designed with sex toys in mind – perhaps something like O’My Lubricant or  Pink Lubricant for Women would be ideal.

Personally I find them fascinating!  All the colours and shapes not to mention the different textures and temperatures you can get, and of course you will definitely get different sensations from glass than from rubber or jelly dildos.  Remember that you can either heat them or cool them for a different sensation … time and time again.

I have done a lot of reading about Glass Dildos in recent months and have discovered that many people seem to be concerned about glass sex toys.  Exactly what the concern is, I am not certain, but it seems to be a mixture of concern and not a bit of fascination.   Do you imagine that glass sex toys are hollow and that they could perhaps shatter while in use?  Maybe you just can’t imagine why people would want to use a glass dildo?  Please send me your comments and let me know your thoughts.

Well, after telling you that, it seems that glass sex toys were made as far back as 1970′s when they appeared in Playboy.  Even before that, I have managed to find out that they were made by European glassworkers while on their lunch hours and then given to wives and girlfriends.

For some reason, possibly the ease of marketing on the internet, in the last 10 years there has been a huge increase in the popularity of glass sex toys worldwide – I wonder why?

Well, now that you know more about Glass Dildos are you curious to give them a try?  If you want to have a look and see more have a look through out range off glass dildos and butt plugs to see what appeals to you.

Watch this space for more information on Glass Sex Toys….

The Cone

As far back as I can remember sex toys for woman have always focussed on the phallic shape and also on penetrative stimulation.  Then came vibrating toys and a whole new era evolved — the clitoral stimulator was born!  After the G Spot was discovered and more and more women became aware of theirs, G Spot vibrators quickly arrived on the scene.  From here it was a short step to the Rabbit Vibrators which is really a one stop shop offering penetration, clitoral stimulation and sometimes G Spot stimulation as well!

Enter THE CONE!

The Most Innovative Sex Toy Around

We have finally evolved away from traditional vibrators and have come up something so amazingly simple in it’s design that it is a wonder it has taken this long to arrive. 

For all you sex addicts out there – who hasn’t discovered the intense pleasure that you can get from leaning (read grinding) against or sitting on an item … if it is vibrating issues you have – what about the washing machine in your kitchen – come on, don’t tell me you haven’t been there!

Men commonly seem to believe that women masturbate only with their hands – I guess this might be as a result of watching too many porn movies where self pleasure is shown in graphic details.  Finally, we have found something that means we can still multi-task and do other things (?) with our hands!!!  The best thing about THE CONE is that you only have to use your hands if you are wantingto switch it on or change the vibrating style.

How many more can you come up with?

Well, that’s all from me this time around – I’m off to fine my CONE!!!

What fun that was. First I had to find a friend who was willing to host a party, then get her to invite a load of our friends (people I knew and others I didn’t). I didn’t want too many people so we settled on inviting 12, and hoping for a show of about 10.

Then we sat down to decide on what stock to take to the party. I decided to take quite a few of the vibrators, some sexy underwear (corsets, babydolls, etc), some fun accessories, novelty items, vibrators of course and some aphrodisiacs.

Next on the list was to brief my host and confirm how many guest we were expecting, then to go out and make sure we had enough wine to get people relaxed and in the mood for some fun.

Noon the afternoon of the party found me frantically trying to get all my ‘stuff’ together and then quickly think about what I was planning to say about each product – just so we wouldn’t have any awkward silences – you know what I mean?

Well we got our 10 guest and after greeting everyone, making sure they all had a large glass of wine I started pulling all my ‘bits’ out of the bag. I quickly ran through the features of each item, showed everyone what it did, how it worked, and then passed it around the group so that they could test it out for themselves – well not really – lol.

I started off with the edible undies. I opened the packet and passed them to everyone so they could check them out – texture, taste, etc Oh my! The comments … can you just imagine? I won’t go into details here, but let your imagination wander. The one of the young ladies got the undies and next minute she was wearing it on her head and doing an impromptu dance in the middle of the floor – maybe she isn’t used to drinking? lol

Ok, on to the vibrators. I had brought a few different ones for the ladies to ‘play’ with.

• Extravaganza Blue Vibrator
• Toy Joy Mini Marvelous Dolphin Vibe
• Eclipse Twin Turbine

Boy did we have fun with these, all the different speeds and gyrations going on. The girls went to town on these babies. Of course it was very hard for me to decide which ones to bring with me – there are just SO many.

Now, on to the Dildo’s. Again, so many to choose from so I decided on 1 glass one with pretty designs and a fleshy one. I’m sure you can imagine the comments this one inspired. Let your imagination go wild and I’ll lay odds you aren’t even close! This Big Bad Boy is 7″ around at the head and 7 1/2″ at the base — hmmm, what I could get up to with that!

Ok, time to calm everyone down with a few games. I have a selection, but only brought a few with me. My favorites are the ‘Beginners Strip Tease Kit’ and ‘Dirty Minds‘. I don’t want to go on forever here, so suffice to say we had an awesome and very funny time leaving through the questions from the Dirty Minds game. It certainly did set out the saintly from the lecherous amongst us.

Next came a couple of Penis Ring Vibrators, 1 or 2 bondage items – Nipple clamps and some examples of Restraints. The some lingerie just to round the evening off – a few corsets, couple of sexy babydoll items and some thongs – male and female!

What a fun evening. I handed the order forms around after the lingerie had done the rounds, had a few more glasses of wine and then collected the forms.

Hmmm, I didn’t want to get too involved in doing parties – it is far too time consuming … this this was really a lot of fun. Maybe I could be persuaded to do another one.

Have fun.

Adult Toys are meant to be just that – Toys.  They are primarily meant for couples to enhance their sexual relationship.

I guess it is true that some single adults will and do use them for other recreational purposes, they weren’t originally designed to take the place of a partner.  Rather, they were meant to complement that partner and to enhance your sexual experience together.

I find that keeping this in mind when purchasing my sex toys (and reviewing them) helps me to remain centered on our relationship, rather than letting it become all about ME.

Many of the sex toys around today are centered on female pleasure, e.g. vibrators and there are many people who, when asked about sex toys, will immediately think of vibrators and will go no further.  In fact, there are many many different types of Sex Toys available – more and more with each passing day.

Watch this blog and I will be telling you about some of them… or go to my website to view a wide variety. 

Till next time…